Relations not just a word , but to the younger siblings it means only real brother, sister and parents. We tend to forget, in a lifetime relations are nurturing gift of making stronger bonds. Relation between the two people or families doesn’t mean to be from the same womb.
Remembering the unforgettable moment…
Went to school for Parents-Teacher Meet and mam was astonished to see me…
Smiled and congratulated by adding, ‘Is someone in your house blessed with baby child?’
Replied,’ yes! Mam my brother, but how…?’
Mam just an innocence of a child,as little angel confirmed her no. of siblings.
With a giggle, ‘Mam! they are my sister in law and brothers children.’
Foreseeable, When your roots are same and you grow in different directions, but remain special in each other’s life as the first friend and consider everyone to be on the first place. No formalities, masks… on anyone’s face.
It’s a say, you see your childhood in your child…
Recalling, A day in school …came my new English teacher… Me and my brothers were in same school and mostly everyone knew we are family.
The new teacher was quite impressive. She began to plan an act. She gave the lead role to me , but was in doubt to keep my brother in the play. On my request, she decided to give him a role in the play.
After few days, she came to me asking about something and confirmed her of received message from my brother. With the confusion, ‘How many brothers and sisters are you?
Replied,’Five.’ Astonishingly, ‘Are they real?’
I was confused to give her answer… real or not , but they are my brother and sister.
I replied, ‘Yes! We are real but from different mothers. ‘
She smiled back and introduced me to the new relation…. and said, ‘Cousins!’
Looking at Little angel.. Made me realize…
How innocent the relations are. The distance between any relationships is never defined… living and brought up in a family with values of relations through respect and closer to everyone from the core of heart…
Questioned?
Will every generation rising be able to realize the value of having their first friend as brother or sister in this world or just be in formal relationships?
Saniya ek baat bolu tum such mein rishte nibhana janti ho that’s great to u
Wow.. Simply wow.. Gone r the days whn cousins were called real… World is changing at superfast mode .. So does relations…. I wish new generation must inculcate these value system .. Where love is prior to anything elae
Wonderfully expressed, keep the spirit high?
In childhood,We all were like that but while growing we became so busy in our own world that we are losing that touch…
But we all should make efforts to inculcate such in our kids ????
Saniya your writings make me recall my childhood memories innocence is blessing which is really missed today
Truely said di,We all use to call our cousins Our REAL brothers & sisters!
As kids who knew the meaning of real brother or sister!One’s who gave us love,we lived tgthr were our REAL ones!Dfclt to explain kids the TRUE meaning of relations today!
Relations are important
U remind me my childhood how we count our sibblings??
Beautifully written
So beautifully expressed dii..
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Nice one….I think the responsibility is on us to inculcate such values of relationships to our kids.